A couple years ago I was introduced to the idea of yoni massage. A relationship coach friend (Sara Tang) asked me to join her podcast where she was interviewing a well known mindful intimacy practitioner in APAC, Viv Kan. Sara wanted a male perspective and I was happy to learn more. I thought “yoni” wasContinue reading “The Potential Wellness Benefits of Yoni Massage: A Closer Look”
Category Archives: Intimacy
Redefining Disability and Celebrating Sexual Empowerment
Years ago I had a client (Melissa) with a disability which did not allow her to walk. She was confined to a wheel chair but this did not stop her from enjoying life. Melissa was in her 20s, living in Australia, and had a successful career. I met her at a local bar to getContinue reading “Redefining Disability and Celebrating Sexual Empowerment”
A Family Affair
After a few serious posts, I thought I would give you guys something a little more juicy. I don’t want to give away the story in the title so please, read on! I have been involved in the swinger/lifestyle scene for many years, starting in Chicago and then around the world in the various placesContinue reading “A Family Affair”
Empowerment and Healing: Understanding the Complexities of Seeking Connection After Trauma
Warning: this post discusses rape and trauma A few years ago I was at a bar hanging out with some friends of mine. We were watching some jazz from a local group. Another friend of ours was singing, entertaining in the way that she does (which can be quite confrontational, especially for jazz!). It wasContinue reading “Empowerment and Healing: Understanding the Complexities of Seeking Connection After Trauma”
Building Genuine Connections: The Key to Healthy Intimacy
All relationships are unique, requiring genuine connections and vulnerability. Intimacy goes beyond sex, involving acceptance, open communication, and respect for individual experiences. Comparison and competition in intimacy are futile. Continuous communication, mutual learning, and self-care are vital for healthy relationships. It’s about connection, respect, and self-truth, not finding a savior.
Wesley James - Premier Companion 