Wesley James – Premier Companion

The Spectrum: A Journey into Sex Positivity

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Unconventional Sex and Beauty in Saigon

It was a hot day in Saigon after of a thrilling 7-day tour across the country. With a few days to myself, I found myself exploring the local dating apps, excited for some adult fun and play. The prospect of fun intrigued…
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5 Essential Tips for Healthy Open Relationships

In a world where traditional relationship norms are evolving, open relationships have become a topic of interest among the talking heads, and even my close friends and relatives. Open relationships are more common than you think if you define any sex outside…
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The Potential Wellness Benefits of Yoni Massage: A Closer Look

A couple years ago I was introduced to the idea of yoni massage. A relationship coach friend (Sara Tang) asked me to join her podcast where she was interviewing a well known mindful intimacy practitioner in APAC, Viv Kan. Sara wanted a…
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Redefining Disability and Celebrating Sexual Empowerment

Years ago I had a client (Melissa) with a disability which did not allow her to walk. She was confined to a wheel chair but this did not stop her from enjoying life. Melissa was in her 20s, living in Australia, and…
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A Family Affair

After a few serious posts, I thought I would give you guys something a little more juicy. I don’t want to give away the story in the title so please, read on! I have been involved in the swinger/lifestyle scene for many…
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Empowerment and Healing: Understanding the Complexities of Seeking Connection After Trauma

Warning: this post discusses rape and trauma A few years ago I was at a bar hanging out with some friends of mine. We were watching some jazz from a local group. Another friend of ours was singing, entertaining in the way…
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