Female ejaculation, or “squirting,” is a topic that has sparked curiosity, debate, and a fair amount of misinformation. Despite the intrigue surrounding it, there’s still a lot to learn about why and how it occurs. What is Female Ejaculation? Female ejaculation refers to the expulsion of fluid from the urethra during sexual arousal or orgasm.Continue reading “Understanding Female Ejaculation: The Science Behind “Squirting””
Category Archives: Sex
Unconventional Sex and Beauty in Saigon
It was a hot day in Saigon after of a thrilling 7-day tour across the country. With a few days to myself, I found myself exploring the local dating apps, excited for some adult fun and play. The prospect of fun intrigued me, but beyond that, I am genuinely intrigued by the dating culture inContinue reading “Unconventional Sex and Beauty in Saigon”
The Potential Wellness Benefits of Yoni Massage: A Closer Look
A couple years ago I was introduced to the idea of yoni massage. A relationship coach friend (Sara Tang) asked me to join her podcast where she was interviewing a well known mindful intimacy practitioner in APAC, Viv Kan. Sara wanted a male perspective and I was happy to learn more. I thought “yoni” wasContinue reading “The Potential Wellness Benefits of Yoni Massage: A Closer Look”
Redefining Disability and Celebrating Sexual Empowerment
Years ago I had a client (Melissa) with a disability which did not allow her to walk. She was confined to a wheel chair but this did not stop her from enjoying life. Melissa was in her 20s, living in Australia, and had a successful career. I met her at a local bar to getContinue reading “Redefining Disability and Celebrating Sexual Empowerment”
A Family Affair
After a few serious posts, I thought I would give you guys something a little more juicy. I don’t want to give away the story in the title so please, read on! I have been involved in the swinger/lifestyle scene for many years, starting in Chicago and then around the world in the various placesContinue reading “A Family Affair”
Building Genuine Connections: The Key to Healthy Intimacy
All relationships are unique, requiring genuine connections and vulnerability. Intimacy goes beyond sex, involving acceptance, open communication, and respect for individual experiences. Comparison and competition in intimacy are futile. Continuous communication, mutual learning, and self-care are vital for healthy relationships. It’s about connection, respect, and self-truth, not finding a savior.
Sex Parties: What I Wish I’d Known
I share my first experience at a sex party, highlighting the rules, vibe, and etiquette. They emphasize consent, safe sex, and respectful behavior. Despite initial nerves, the atmosphere was relaxed, promoting socializing and comfort. I found the experience empowering, and now organizing my own parties and emphasize the importance of self-awareness and boundaries.
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